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Makeup and sheitel tips.  For a listing of makeup artists and sheitel stylists, see LookingGood.htm 

Note:  For information on Sheitel construction and maintenance tips, scroll down tothe articles by Aviva Rizel. 

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Step 1 Clear off.

To remove flakes of eyeshadow or mascara that have made their way lower on your face throughout the day, dip a cotton ball into translucent powder to wipe away the makeup particles on the parts of your face where you don’t want them. To get rid of raccoon eyes, dampen a cotton swab and run it under the lower lash to remove mascara and eyeliner that has spread beyond where you want it. If that doesn’t do the trick, use eye makeup remover


Step 2: Dewy does it.

If you a reapplying mascara, try keeping slightly damp cotton swab behind the lashes during the application for a dewy look.

Step 3: Neutral ground.

Start by applying a neutral shadow over the entire eyelid. Add some dramatic impact by lining you eyes with a dark shadow applied with a fine brush.

Step 4: A Touch of Shimmer.

Apply shimmer on the center of the upper eyelid and the inner corner of the eye to help brighten the eyes, giving you a more awake look.

Step 5: A rosy glow.

You can also apply a bit of shimmer about your cheeks after touching up your blush for glowing appearance.

Step 6: Keep your lips sealed.

For long-lasting lip color, try a stain formula. Avoid getting it on fingers by using an applicator and blotting. Keep your lipstick confined to your lips for the night. To prevent the color from bleeding, apply translucent powder along the outer edge of the lips. You can use a small brush, a clean eyeshadow applicator, or a cotton swab for the purpose.

Step 7: Ready, set, shine! To make your lips look a bit plumper, dab a bit of petroleum jelly or lip gloss in the center of your lips. For all over lip shine, spread evenly over lips

Beauty Concepts and Concoctions

Makeup has been around for thousands of years. It is even referred to in Nach

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in terms of color used around the eyes.   While it has always been around, it was not always as easily procured as it is today.  During the eighteenth century, both men and women applied makeup made out of wax, which necessitated

screens to shield  them from the direct heat of the fireplace.  Without them, their faces would have melted, not the effect they aspired to.  The wax filled in scars left by the pox.  Some speculate that the phrase, "Mind your own bee's wax" actually stems from this practice.  To split hairs further, some interpret it as a friendly warning to someone whose wax was imperiled by heat, while others believe it was used as a verbal slap to a woman who stared at another's makeup.  

 

Beeswax is still a major ingredient in cosmetics today.  Another useful bee product is honey.* For an easy moisture mask at very low cost,  make your own -- out of honey and bananas.  Mash a ripe banana and mix it with 3 tablespoons of honey.  Cover your face (but not your eyes) and leave on for 10 minutes.  Rinse off with warm water.

 

 During colonial and Victorian times, women would often  concoct their  own lash coloring out of lampblack, burnt cork, or burnt hair curlers and apply "salves" to redden lips.  A Victorian lady, however, would not want to admit to the use of "paint," as makeup was called.  So cosmetics were applied surreptitiously.

 

Commercially produced makeup did begin to appear around the turn of the previous century, and makeup came out in public in the 1920s.  Many women made their fortunes in the new cosmetics industry, including some Jewish immigrants.  Unfortunately, cosmetics did not come under official regulation until 1938.  Until that point, many of the products contained seriously dangerous ingredients.  One of the most notorious was an eyelash dye, Lashlure,  that caused burning to the eye that caused permanent blindness for some and even one death. 

 

 The first commercially produced mascara was sold by Maybelline in the form of a cake (much like soap) that required a wet brush to be used to apply it to the lashes.  Mascara was also available as cream and a liquid, but all forms required a brush for application.  A mascara wand had been patented  in 1939, but the use of that tool only took off in the late 1950s. 

 

Apparently, the area of face focus of the intervening years shifted to the lips.  In fact, during World War II, cosmetic manufacturers convinced the government to allow them to continue to manufacture lipstick even when products used in its production were at  the time reserved for the war effort.   There was even a shade of lipstick designated for women serving in uniform, designed to coordinate with the official colors.

  

  

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Aviva Rizel Answers Your Sheitel Question

hi!
I hope
you do not mind my asking you this question.

aviva

Do you suggest that a kallah get a custom wig for her first wig? (my
friend's daughter has connections and can get it at a good price.) is there any
disadvantage to doing so? (as compared to getting a semi-custom wig out of the
box)
thanks! 

Mrs G.

Dear Mrs. G.,

Mazel tov on your daughter's engagement and thank you for your question.  Many women have asked me the same question when they are on the market for a new sheitel.  I normally discourage most women from purchasing a custom wig, as they are much more costly, and not that much more advantageous to semi-custom wigs.   The main reason I do so is because if one orders a custom wig, she is typically obligated to purchase it, even if she is not satisfied with the finished product.  Another factor is that the hair quality is usually identical to high-end semi-customs.  If one does proper research, then she is likely to find a semi-custom that is right for her.

If she cannot find a semi-custom that she likes, there is another option.  Often, when ordering a semi-custom from a large company, one is able to "special order" a semi-custom wig.  This means that she can specify the color, cap size, part (right, middle, left, or multi-directional), as well as the hair type (silky straight, straight with body on the bottom, wavy or curly, etc.).  A special order wig is the same price as the semi-custom model, and one is not obligated to purchase it.  The only disadvantage to a special order wig is the time constraint.  Such a wig will take up to 8 weeks to be produced and shipped.  At that point, the customer may not be satisfied with the wig and will have to start the process over.  Fortunately, she is not under any obligation to buy the unsatisfactory wig.  

A custom wig (as mentioned in my archived article, "Sheitels 101") is good for a woman with an unusual color, an unusual texture (very tight curls, for example), an irregular hairline or an extra large or extra small head size.  But please beware that even if one has an irregular hairline and orders a custom wig, the cap often will not cover perfectly.  This actually happened to me as a kallah and I alleviated the problem by cutting bangs and angles that cover it strategically, but it made me doubt the virtues of a custom wig. 

In conclusion, I find that for the majority of the population, a semi-custom wig is a sensible purchase that can be styled to look just as beautiful as a custom.  Perhaps you can use your daughter's connection toward a discounted semi-custom.  Hatzlacha Rabbah!  (P.S. Be sure that your daughter uses a patient and knowledgable sheitel macher who can teach her all the tricks a kallah needs to know about her sheitel!)


-Aviva Rizel

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 Sheitels 101   By Aviva Rizel 

One of the most taxing decisions a kallah endures is choosing her first sheitel.  All sheitel machers know that when servicing a kallah, we must be patient and informative.  Even with the most considerate sheitel macher, a kallah can leave her salon even more confused than when she walked in.  This is due to the plethora of information surrounding a sheitel.  It behooves all kallahs to do a little research before scheduling a sheitel appointment.  I have put together below a crash-course in purchasing a sheitel.  It is only the “lecture” part of the course.  The supplementary “lab” is given at your local sheitel macher’s salon, where she will guide you in exploring sheitels hands-on.   We’ll start with the basic components that distinguish sheitels. 

The Cap

The cap of your wig will contribute to its comfort level.  Some wigs have an open weft, which means that the rows of hair are held together by columns of elastic strips.  The (minor) benefit of this that I personally have found is that you can reach through the  the cap to scratch your head. 

Aside from that minute benefit, most women find a stretch cap to be more comfortable.  It is made of a lightweight, tightly-woven elastic mesh and conforms easily to the unique shape of each woman’s head.  There is also a super-light weight stretch cap, sometimes known as “stocking stretch cap.”  Customers who purchase wigs with this type of cap rave about the comfort of it.  While it is exceptionally comfortable, it is also exceptionally delicate, calling for special care in washing.  Most higher-end wigs are made with a stretch cap.  Freeda Wigs, for example, updated their entire inventory from open weft to stretch.  Some of the less expensive companies have a stretch cap in one or two of their models.

The Top/Scalp

Most wigs these days have a skin top.  A skin-toned material is in the cap of the wig by the part of the hair. The more economical type of skin top is simply a strip (sometimes wide, sometimes narrow, depending on the company) in the place where the part is.  This means that if the skin-toned strip is on the left side, the wig should not be parted on the right side. While you can direct the hair that way, the part would reveal the netting rather than the skin tone. 

Certain wigs have the skin-toned material spanning the entire top of the wig.  This is known as a multi-directional wig. It can be parted on the right side, left side, off-center, or in the middle. But that does not mean that you can easily direct the hair any way you like.  Some customers become frustrated when they attempt to comb the hair to the part it differently themselves because the hair flips back to the original part.  The hair will only stay parted if it is blown dry in the new direction.  So your best bet is to get your sheitel macher to style it to the new part.  Multi-directional wigs are generally more costly though, and a lot of customers find that they don’t change their parts around.  A wig can still be beautiful and natural looking without being a multi-directional wig.   Each kallah should consider all of a wig’s features before making her decision. 

Various Tiers of Wigs

1) Out-of-the-box wigs include Yaffas, Georgies, Michals, Judys and others.  This type of wig is more affordable than semi-custom or custom.  The cap is usually open weft, and adjustable one-size-fits all.  The hair may be synthetic, blend (50% synthetic/50% human), or 100% human.  The human hair of an out-of-the-box wig is typically Asian and it has been heavily treated.  The hair is stripped of its color, and then dyed.  It is also treated with various chemicals.  Some customers of mine do not like the hair because of its not-so-natural feel, yet others insist on an out-of-the-box because of its low maintenance.  The hair is able to hold style better and for longer.  This makes it a smart choice for the budget-conscious because it is less expensive to purchase, and costs less over its long-term maintenance. 

Out-of-the-box companies have made great gains in many of their wigs.  I’ve seen some companies products evolve over the years to look and feel like a higher end wig.  Some have a stretch cap with a multi-directional top, and some have less processed hair.  I have noticed, however, that they still shed more than a semi-custom or custom wig.  This means that an out-of-the-box wig should not be thinned during the cutting process, because hair will fall out on its own. 

2) Semi-custom wigs are the kind that I encourage most of my customers to purchase.  Some well-known semi-custom companies are Freeda, Allegria, and Shevy. A semi-custom wig has hair that is extremely natural to the eye and to the touch because it has not been stripped of its color and then, subsequently dyed.  The hair quality is typically the same as a custom wig.

Many caps are stretch caps and come in Small, Medium, or Large.  It is recommended to purchase a wig that is slightly snug because it stretches minimally over time.  The hair is usually hand-sewn, strand, by strand on the top part of the wig, and machine-sewn throughout the rest.  Some companies offer a wig that is entirely hand-sewn, for slightly more money.  I find that such a wig is comparable to a custom wig, for a fraction of the price.     

Fortunately, it is quite simple to shop around when purchasing a semi-custom wig.  Find out the company, make and color, then compare prices.  (According to halacha, you should be honest with the sheitel machers about your intent to gather information before committing to a purchase.) Additionally, if you know of a particular brand that you are interested in, but do not know of a sheitel macher that sells it, call up the company and ask if there is one in your area.  

3) Custom wigs, by definition, vary from piece to piece.  A woman buying a custom wig chooses the hair texture, and length.  The cap is fitted or molded to match the woman’s hairline.  Hair samples are taken to ensure a perfect color match.  An owner of a custom wig has something that is unique to her head shape and hair color.  

With this said, I do not encourage the average customer to purchase a custom wig.  Firstly, they are more costly than a comparable semi-custom wig.  Secondly, the customer is obligated to purchase it once it has been manufactured.  I, for one, was unhappy with a custom wig that I purchased as a kallah.  I chose the hair texture and type, only to find that once it was made, it tangled often.  I was also unsatisfied with the cap.  It was made to match my hairline, yet it never lay right and I always had to be sure that the hair covered my temples.

A good candidate for a custom wig is someone with an exceptionally large or exceptionally small head, someone with curly hair, someone with red or ash blond hair, or someone with an extremely asymmetrical or irregular hairline.  (It is important to note that everybody has some asymmetry and irregularity within their hairline.)  For those of you readers who are candidates for a custom, but do not have the budget for it, do not dismay.  With a little research, and a lot of patience, you may be able to find a semi-custom that meets your needs. 

With the above information, you are armed and ready to begin your quest for your first sheitel.  A beautiful, comfortable sheitel will help you perform the mitzvah of covering your hair b’simcha.  Wear your sheitel with pride—as a queen with a crown that befits her noble station!    

  Aviva's Wigs is located at  525 Chestnut Street Cedarhurst, NY 11516 Hours; Tuesday through Friday 10am-3pm, Sunday 11am-3pm and by appointment  Call: 516-256-WIGS (9447)  Visit online at http://www.avivaswigs.com/


   Your Perfect Sheitel Style

By Aviva Rizel

When choosing the cut for your new sheitel, there are two things to consider: what will flatter your face, and how to avoid looking “wiggy”.  This article will attempt to answer both questions.  Check in Part I to find which face shape is yours, and learn which cut will look best one you.  Then go on to Part II to make a good sheitel look great with tips toward a natural look.

Part I “Which Cut Will Flatter My Face?”

Oval: An oval face shape has the most options because almost any haircut will flatter it. 

Whichever length you choose, cut layers around your face.  The layers and angles fall out between your cheekbone and chin length.  A good way to decide how short to go is by determining which is your best feature --  your cheekbones, mouth or chin.  Have your stylist cut the angles and layers the same length as the feature you want to accentuate.   If your sheitel has thick hair or curly hair, avoid a blunt cut like a severe bob.

Long or Oblong: This face shape can be mistaken for an oval shape since it is essentially a longer, possibly thinner, oval. 

A long face can look good with a medium length.  Very long hair (more than two inches past the collarbone) will make a long face appear even longer.  Close-cropped hair will also elongate a long face.  Instead, opt for medium lengths, with styles that add width.  You can create width for straight hair with bangs. Long, side-swept bangs are very modern. Chin-length bobs are also ideal for you because they create the illusion of width. Curls and waves also add width, but avoid short layers that add volume on top.

Round: A round face is not necessarily a large face.  It is round if there is less cheekbone definition or fuller cheeks.

Your best bet is a style that falls right below your chin. Soft, graduated layers are also a great because they make your face appear slimmer and tend to remove width from the sides. Bangs are flattering, but keep them long or sideswept.  Wispy and tapered ends are also flattering (and current).  If you opt for a short sheitel, avoid a single-length, blunt cut.

Square: A square face’s strongest feature is its angular and wide jaw-line. 

If you have a square face, you'll want to balance out your features by use of texture.  Texture can come in the form of curls or choppy ends.  You can also get away with short, spiky cuts or long, sleek styles with layers that start at the jaw-line and continue downward.  Avoid chin-length cuts and blunt-cut bangs.  These will create a harsh look, and a square face does best with a style that softens.

Heart: A heart shaped face will have a pointier chin that extends past the jaw-line. 

Your chin tends to be the focal point of your face. Draw attention to your eyes and cheekbones by drawing the view upward with side-swept bangs (these act almost like arrows to your eyes or cheeks).  Some soft angles just below the eyebrow will also serve to balance the focus of your face.  If you have a short sheitel, keep the top layers soft and long. If your sheitel is long, go for wavy layers that graze your cheekbones.  Avoid blunt-cut bangs and harsh, choppy layers.

Part II “How Can I Have a Natural Look?”

The cut is a key component of a natural and flattering look. A cut that is very current, and flattering for every face shape also happens to be a great natural look for a wig. It is the side-swept banged, long-layered bob, which will make your sheitel look good and do wonders for your face.  If you have a long sheitel, have the ends cut in a slight U shape, with the hair around your face subtly shorter than the hair in the back. When long hair is cut in a blunt straight line, it tends to look unhealthy, overgrown, or even gothic. A subtle U shape softens the lengthy look.

Keep the shape natural with a smooth top.  Your sheitel will look best if the hair on the very top of the cap (around the part) lays flat.  No matter what face shape you have, you should not get short layers around the top of your head.  I like to use a trick to keep the top from having too much height.  I smooth down the hair by flattening the “roots” with my hand or with a brush over the hair, and I run the blow-dryer while it is very taut against the cap.  

A subtle way to make your sheitel look less “wiggy” is by styling in a crooked part.  It can either be a straight line that is slanted toward one side, or it can be a few hairs in one direction, and a few hairs in the other (all within a one-inch zone, otherwise this will look too messy).

The last way to make your wig look more natural is by feeling natural in it.  If you are in the mood for a ponytail, go for it.  If you feel like today is the day to go wavy via mousse, scrunch away.  Try to wear your sheitel the same way you would wear your hair.  So don’t throw out your clips and scrunchies.  They can find a second life in your sheitel.

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